Singles Policy

Singles Policy

 

For reasons known to all people in the lifestyle, swinging is first and foremost, a “couples” domain. At PP847 however, we recognize and embrace those who are single, but still live the lifestyle, and respect its rules, boundaries and traditions.Thus, we do allow and welcome single ladies who embrace the lifestyle, and a limited number of VERY select single gentlemen. Below are the particulars for both our single lady and potential single guy guests. As always, if there are any questions or concerns, never hesitate to contact us either at 847-220-0648  or from our Contact Us page.

Ladies

Single Ladies may attend our events by using same process couples use. There are some things that we ask our single ladies to remember.

  • Always respect the boundaries of both all our other single and couples guests.
  • Please be safe, sane and consensual, and have any potential outside entanglements in order. We need not know the details of your life, but we ask that any issues be checked at the door. This is for your sake, for the sake of our other guests, and for that of the club as well. These are the same expectations we place on the couples and single guys.
  • Be mindful of any appearance or inference of any unethical or unlawful quid pro quot between you and other guests. A simple innocent gesture or gift could be misunderstood.  If you are ever approached with such intent, please report it to PP847 post haste.
  • Like all guests, you are not obligated to engage in any interaction you are not 100% comfortable with, but remember you are on the same level playing field as any other guest. PP847 is a place to let go and enjoy !

Gentlemen

PartyPerks847 advocates the swing lifestyle and therefore we define a “single male” to be a man who is either not currently in  relationship or who is a relationship where his partner knows and approves of his planned participation in our events.

Single guys are allowed in very limited numbers and by INVITATION ONLY.

This happens in one of two ways

  • You may be “sponsored” by a couple or single lady
  • You may contact us and apply and ask for an invitation.

If Sponsored:

Please have the couple or single lady contact us, give us their contact info, and let us know your name and e mail address, which event you would be attending. We will contact you right away with all the info, and arrange to spend a some time by phone and before the event going over some basics. If the sponsoring couple of single lady has a PP847 VIP Membership we will simply contact you with the event info. We trust the judgment of our members without question, please conduct yourselves at all times with that in mind. Please remember that even if you are a sponsored guest, you are still bound by the rules for single males.

If Not Sponsored:

Send an e mail to Anna, our singles coordinator at partyperkssingles@gmail.com and put “Single Gentleman” in then subject field. Please include ALL the requested information below:

  • First name, City and State, Phone number, The best time and way to contact you.
  • Let us know if your request is for general information, questions, or an event reservation request
  • Tell us a little something about yourself and why YOU should be invited.

Anna, our singles coordinator will get back to you ASAP.  You can also reach Anna at 708-539-8528

Many guys apply, few are invited

That is just a fact and if you are really a guy who understands the lifestyle, you will be neither surprised or offended by that. Not being invited to one event does not always mean you are excluded from future events.  It may be that we have all the singles we can hold, or that you are not a good fit for that one particular event. We will always be honest and up front with you, and you will always know where you stand.

  • Don’t disqualify yourself. If you think you are too short, to tall, too good looking, not good looking enough, have the wrong hair, clothes, shoes, let US be the judge of that. If you want to attend we want to know and see if it can happen. We welcome people of ALL ages, races, sizes, and backgrounds.
  • Offer to volunteer to help out. Some of our single male guests do things like help set up, clean up and spend a little time helping out during events. While this offer on it’s own will NOT assure you of an invitation, it may well help
  • Being “polite and respectful” is nice, but that should go without saying. We need to know you are better than just the minimum requirements, and why you are that special type of guy who should be at our event.
  • Please be safe, sane and consensual, and have any potential outside entanglements in order. Be a man who is either currently without a partner or one who is in an “open relationship,” meaning your partner is aware of your planned participation in PartyPerks847 events.
  • *Our wives, life partners and girlfriends are, our hearts and our lives. We share then freely but if you don’t understand that being with them is a gift from God and something to totally respect, please move on.
  • We deal with thousands of single guys a year, and have our pick of “hot” guys. It will be your personality,  attitude, and outlook that gets you in the door, not your DNA. This is not the case just some of the time, this is the case ALL of the time.
  • Be real. We deal with people each and every day and we can spot a poser coming from 10 miles away, and we promise you will not make the cut.